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Going To Bars/Clubs Is That A Red Flag For You?

soulforge

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this.

Its a red flag but its not an automatic next. I have spent a lot of time with career women that go out because thats what society tells them they should be doing on Friday. TBH, the conformity is a bigger red flag, but at least they have decent friends and a support system. When they go out, they dont do anything with any guys.
I hear you... However both plates have other red flags that put me off.

Attention seeking on all social media platforms, going out to clubs, I don't see long term relationship qualities In either of them
 

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I'm seeing two plates at the moment... Both go out to bars/clubs once every maybe 2-3 weeks.

Personally I don't give a crap about it.. both are for recreational use only, alsong as I am getting laid, I simply don't care.

Neither would I ask them to stop going to bars... However if it's a girl that I see a potential relationship with, then yeh I don't think it would be acceptable to me if she is out in the clubs.

Is it a red flag for you when it comes to plates? Or only in a relationship?
Nothing is a red flag for plates, since I don't care.

I would never date a women who goes out to busy bars/clubs regularly on weekends with slutty friends.
 

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Nothing is a red flag for plates, since I don't care.

I would never date a women who goes out to busy bars/clubs regularly on weekends with slutty friends.
Absolutely.. It's one of my biggest red flags... She sent me pictures of herself dressed up sexy for the club. I simply told her enjoy yourself.

The way i see it is, she is hot, but is public property. I will continue smashing her, but a LTR will never happen.
 

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Both have got pretty menial jobs... Nothing special.. I would say dead end... Both are eastern European hotties, one is 26 and other one is 24

I am age 47... Both go to clubs with guys there own type of age go.

Besides the club's bars .. I see other red flags in both of them, that tell me an LTR is out of the question.

One of them the 24 year old, trying to get a relationship from me.

Recently has started calling me babe, baby, wants cuddles in bed and after sex...

Pretty certain she wants more than casual, however I can't give her that... She got too many red flags including the bars and clubs.

Soooo. I suppose I can keep her around recreational use only.

No cuddles and kisses etc... Maybe just bang her once every two weeks. Shame she is so super hot
your....47.... asking if a girl whos going to the club at 24 is a red flag. you sleep with her and she calling you babe and now you think she wants a relationship? your either trolling or have fallin of the turnip truck yesterday.



your 47 and cant handle some girl half your age?



dude put a baby in her, just keep fukin her or leave her.
 

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your....47.... asking if a girl whos going to the club at 24 is a red flag. you sleep with her and she calling you babe and now you think she wants a relationship? your either trolling or have fallin of the turnip truck yesterday.



your 47 and cant handle some girl half your age?



dude put a baby in her, just keep fukin her or leave her.
Dude what part can't I handle?

Wether she is 26 or 46 my standards still remain the same... I don't LTR bar/club hoees... They belong to the street.

What has age to do with red flags?
 

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Dude what part can't I handle?

Wether she is 26 or 46 my standards still remain the same... I don't LTR bar/club hoees... They belong to the street.

What has age to do with red flags?
Ok I get it...gotcha, so this is just a circle jerk thread to bash women who go to bars.

ok cool dude so its a red flag for women to go to the bar.
 

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Ok I get it...gotcha, so this is just a circle jerk thread to bash women who go to bars.

ok cool dude so its a red flag for women to go to the bar.
Bro if you want to wife up a chik, who is in the club every weekend, intoxicated & repelling Tyron & Jamal's dik & on the odd occasion giving into her hypergemous nature, then that's down to you.

As an older and experienced man, I know these girls belong to the street.
 

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Bro if you want to wife up a chik, who is in the club every weekend, intoxicated & repelling Tyron & Jamal's dik & on the odd occasion giving into her hypergemous nature, then that's down to you.

As an older and experienced man, I know these girls belong to the street.
ight dude
 

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I don't see a problem going to a bar once every few weeks, no matter what age unless these girls go home with dudes every time.
 

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sometimes girls who dont go out at all are fvcking weird...
This. The women I know who never go out are the people who only ever go to work or take care of their kids.
 
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