the_govner
Don Juan
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Thanks in advance.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Going to an afternoon pool party tomorrow, any approach tips?
- Thread starter the_govner
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Throw a girl in the pool and laugh at her when she surfaces.
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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Wear lime green speedos..
In Motion
Senior Don Juan
All of the above.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I suggest making a entrance like Party boy. Stripping of your pants in a quick swoosh, showing your lepard thong. After proceed to the bar and never leave it from the moment you start drinking
When really drunk take a refreshing dive after you push in some other people.
You'll be the coolest man in town i promise
When really drunk take a refreshing dive after you push in some other people.
You'll be the coolest man in town i promise
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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Great advice in here
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Try talking to a girl without staring at her t!ts or checking out another girl at the same time. It's hard enough when fully clothed.