the_govner
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Thanks in advance.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Going to an afternoon pool party tomorrow, any approach tips?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Throw a girl in the pool and laugh at her when she surfaces.
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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Wear lime green speedos..
In Motion
Senior Don Juan
All of the above.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I suggest making a entrance like Party boy. Stripping of your pants in a quick swoosh, showing your lepard thong. After proceed to the bar and never leave it from the moment you start drinking
When really drunk take a refreshing dive after you push in some other people.
You'll be the coolest man in town i promise
When really drunk take a refreshing dive after you push in some other people.
You'll be the coolest man in town i promise
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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Great advice in here
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Try talking to a girl without staring at her t!ts or checking out another girl at the same time. It's hard enough when fully clothed.