BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
I've never been to one before so I don't really know what to expect. How does it work (as stupid as it sounds hahah), and what should I expect to have to pay? Anything I should know before going there?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Going to a strip club for my first time... What to expect?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Moofahsa
Senior Don Juan
Take a roll of 1's...leave your 5's and 10's in the car.
Don't drink too much
Don't do the "private" thing...
You can have fun for $50 with cover/drinks. You don't have to act like a big pimp and drop $500...
Don't drink too much
Don't do the "private" thing...
You can have fun for $50 with cover/drinks. You don't have to act like a big pimp and drop $500...
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Remember. No matter what a stripper tells you. There's no sex in the champagne room. None. There's strippers in the champagne room, but you may not want strippers, you want probobly want sex. And there's no sex in the champagne room.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Double post!.
Mods can I get this one deleted?! I only have 10 post, no complaining but in this situation everyone counts,
Mods can I get this one deleted?! I only have 10 post, no complaining but in this situation everyone counts,
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
If the club is 21 and up then will sell alcoholic drinks and the girls will be topless. If the club is 18 and up they won't sell booze but the girls will be fully nude. It may be different outside of California.
As for what to expect. Beautiful girls will come up to you being very nice and asking if you want a dance.
There will be girls dancing on "stages" with guys circled around the stages. She does her routine and she occasionally gives attention to guys that put money on the stage.
I've only been on a couple of occasions and that's basically it.
As for what to expect. Beautiful girls will come up to you being very nice and asking if you want a dance.
There will be girls dancing on "stages" with guys circled around the stages. She does her routine and she occasionally gives attention to guys that put money on the stage.
I've only been on a couple of occasions and that's basically it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ready123
Master Don Juan
haha that's Chris RockPRMoon said:
that's why I don't care for strip clubs. you end up feeling like you got played. In Tijuana though, there IS sex in the champagne room. except the champagne room is just a booth with a curtain
I don't go to strip clubs anymore because strippers make you feel like **** if you don't pay for private dances, and if you spend all your money (spent 300$ one night, pretty stupid never again) they look at you as another pathetic male.
You also start viewing women even more negatively after leaving a strip club. I'm never going again.
They also use this line a lot, oh I though it would be fun, I though we could have fun, don't listen to this BS.
You also start viewing women even more negatively after leaving a strip club. I'm never going again.
They also use this line a lot, oh I though it would be fun, I though we could have fun, don't listen to this BS.
amoka
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I had terrible experience my first time at a strip club and vow never to go again ( unless for a good course). The stripper was pregnant with big belly showing. Very disgusting. ( That was long before discovery of sosuave).
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
Canada... no rolls of 1's or 2's (we have coins down here) I'm screwed!!! hahahMoofahsa said:
Anyways thanks for the input yall, I think I know what to expect now. Basically it's like a bar, with the exception of the center stage with girls dancing, and other girls coming at your table to persuade you to buy a dance.
Poonani Maker
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On my 16th birthday, my dad paid for lap dances from a very HOT tanned blonde teenaged college stripper. She put her ***** within inches of my lips. It was different than I would have thought up until that point. The second lapdance took place in the back with a brunette who grinded me hard and went up under my shirt and sucked on my nipples - I know weird but true. I was able to grab her ass and touch her tits. Wish I could go back and do her the right way now that I have more experience.
In the back out of the public it's not quite as bad as you can just be yourself but out in the open room, you're conscious about all the guys who might be staring at your horniness over the naked chick in front of you. I tried to act disinterested while out in the middle.
In the back out of the public it's not quite as bad as you can just be yourself but out in the open room, you're conscious about all the guys who might be staring at your horniness over the naked chick in front of you. I tried to act disinterested while out in the middle.