BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
I've never been to one before so I don't really know what to expect. How does it work (as stupid as it sounds hahah), and what should I expect to have to pay? Anything I should know before going there?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Going to a strip club for my first time... What to expect?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Moofahsa
Senior Don Juan
Take a roll of 1's...leave your 5's and 10's in the car.
Don't drink too much
Don't do the "private" thing...
You can have fun for $50 with cover/drinks. You don't have to act like a big pimp and drop $500...
Don't drink too much
Don't do the "private" thing...
You can have fun for $50 with cover/drinks. You don't have to act like a big pimp and drop $500...
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Remember. No matter what a stripper tells you. There's no sex in the champagne room. None. There's strippers in the champagne room, but you may not want strippers, you want probobly want sex. And there's no sex in the champagne room.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Double post!.
Mods can I get this one deleted?! I only have 10 post, no complaining but in this situation everyone counts,
Mods can I get this one deleted?! I only have 10 post, no complaining but in this situation everyone counts,
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
If the club is 21 and up then will sell alcoholic drinks and the girls will be topless. If the club is 18 and up they won't sell booze but the girls will be fully nude. It may be different outside of California.
As for what to expect. Beautiful girls will come up to you being very nice and asking if you want a dance.
There will be girls dancing on "stages" with guys circled around the stages. She does her routine and she occasionally gives attention to guys that put money on the stage.
I've only been on a couple of occasions and that's basically it.
As for what to expect. Beautiful girls will come up to you being very nice and asking if you want a dance.
There will be girls dancing on "stages" with guys circled around the stages. She does her routine and she occasionally gives attention to guys that put money on the stage.
I've only been on a couple of occasions and that's basically it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ready123
Master Don Juan
haha that's Chris RockPRMoon said:
that's why I don't care for strip clubs. you end up feeling like you got played. In Tijuana though, there IS sex in the champagne room. except the champagne room is just a booth with a curtain
I don't go to strip clubs anymore because strippers make you feel like **** if you don't pay for private dances, and if you spend all your money (spent 300$ one night, pretty stupid never again) they look at you as another pathetic male.
You also start viewing women even more negatively after leaving a strip club. I'm never going again.
They also use this line a lot, oh I though it would be fun, I though we could have fun, don't listen to this BS.
You also start viewing women even more negatively after leaving a strip club. I'm never going again.
They also use this line a lot, oh I though it would be fun, I though we could have fun, don't listen to this BS.
amoka
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I had terrible experience my first time at a strip club and vow never to go again ( unless for a good course). The stripper was pregnant with big belly showing. Very disgusting. ( That was long before discovery of sosuave).
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
Canada... no rolls of 1's or 2's (we have coins down here) I'm screwed!!! hahahMoofahsa said:
Anyways thanks for the input yall, I think I know what to expect now. Basically it's like a bar, with the exception of the center stage with girls dancing, and other girls coming at your table to persuade you to buy a dance.
Poonani Maker
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On my 16th birthday, my dad paid for lap dances from a very HOT tanned blonde teenaged college stripper. She put her ***** within inches of my lips. It was different than I would have thought up until that point. The second lapdance took place in the back with a brunette who grinded me hard and went up under my shirt and sucked on my nipples - I know weird but true. I was able to grab her ass and touch her tits. Wish I could go back and do her the right way now that I have more experience.
In the back out of the public it's not quite as bad as you can just be yourself but out in the open room, you're conscious about all the guys who might be staring at your horniness over the naked chick in front of you. I tried to act disinterested while out in the middle.
In the back out of the public it's not quite as bad as you can just be yourself but out in the open room, you're conscious about all the guys who might be staring at your horniness over the naked chick in front of you. I tried to act disinterested while out in the middle.