"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Going to a party to sarge like a MOFO. Field Report due tomorrow!

Target_100

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What to do:

* Don't drink too much
* Be positive, polite and interesting
* Don't be arrogant or overly confident og goofy (happens to me sometimes...)
* Try to get more deep connections in stead of just get the number ASAP and bail as I tend to do
* Get to know some guys also
* Remember names (see *1 hehe :)
* Try to get as many numbers that have value and day 2 potential as possible
* Try to get a girl home with me
* HAVE FUN!

;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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COD

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meeting chics is secondary..........go to the party because you were invited and have fun. IF your primary objective is to seduce girls....you may encounter some inner game resistance.

Its not quantity its quality............if you want a bunch of numbers then go get a phone book and walk around...........now U got everyones #.

a player/baller does this stuff.........a true social artist exudes fun.
 

COD

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oh and scrap that list........forget pickup lines and canned openers........
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Target_100 said:
What to do:

* Don't drink too much
* Be positive, polite and interesting
* Don't be arrogant or overly confident og goofy (happens to me sometimes...)
* Try to get more deep connections in stead of just get the number ASAP and bail as I tend to do
* Get to know some guys also
* Remember names (see *1 hehe :)
* Try to get as many numbers that have value and day 2 potential as possible
* Try to get a girl home with me
* HAVE FUN!

;)
I love your list bro because its exactly the things I tell myself. Nice.
 
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