"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Going to a party to sarge like a MOFO. Field Report due tomorrow!

Target_100

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What to do:

* Don't drink too much
* Be positive, polite and interesting
* Don't be arrogant or overly confident og goofy (happens to me sometimes...)
* Try to get more deep connections in stead of just get the number ASAP and bail as I tend to do
* Get to know some guys also
* Remember names (see *1 hehe :)
* Try to get as many numbers that have value and day 2 potential as possible
* Try to get a girl home with me
* HAVE FUN!

;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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COD

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meeting chics is secondary..........go to the party because you were invited and have fun. IF your primary objective is to seduce girls....you may encounter some inner game resistance.

Its not quantity its quality............if you want a bunch of numbers then go get a phone book and walk around...........now U got everyones #.

a player/baller does this stuff.........a true social artist exudes fun.
 

COD

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oh and scrap that list........forget pickup lines and canned openers........
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Target_100 said:
What to do:

* Don't drink too much
* Be positive, polite and interesting
* Don't be arrogant or overly confident og goofy (happens to me sometimes...)
* Try to get more deep connections in stead of just get the number ASAP and bail as I tend to do
* Get to know some guys also
* Remember names (see *1 hehe :)
* Try to get as many numbers that have value and day 2 potential as possible
* Try to get a girl home with me
* HAVE FUN!

;)
I love your list bro because its exactly the things I tell myself. Nice.
 
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