"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Going to a party for the first time tommorow

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Going to a good party tommorow night where lots of hot chicks from my school are going to be there.

A lot of these hotties go to my school, but I rarely talk to to them.

I wanna talk to a lot of them so we can talk more often at school.

I also wanna hook up with some girls, anyone have any tips to help me out?

thanks! :cool:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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if there is alcohol there....drink a few shots liek 3-4 and everythighn else will hjappen naturally...if not jstu go up to them and be likehey i've seen u around school what grade you kn blah blah blah
 
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Hey, make sure to DRESS ABOVE THE REST!! Then they'll notice you!!:D
 
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actually, if its your first party, I'd say lie a little low. Get your drunk on, make friends and get noticed. but if its jocks, don't wear a tie and sportcoat. Not unless you are THE SHYT and can get away with it.
 
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Drink enough alchy to get you loosened up, like someobe before said its a nature flow to start talking to people.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
actually, if its your first party, I'd say lie a little low. Get your drunk on, make friends and get noticed. but if its jocks, don't wear a tie and sportcoat. Not unless you are THE SHYT and can get away with it.
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haha who would wear a tie and a sportcoat to a high school party? this is just a party among friends, is nothing formal.

about the party, if there is alcohol, make sure you make the most out of it, bc a lot of times in high school parties all the stupid kids make the parties get busted. other than that just have fun
 
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