"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Going to a party for the first time tommorow

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Going to a good party tommorow night where lots of hot chicks from my school are going to be there.

A lot of these hotties go to my school, but I rarely talk to to them.

I wanna talk to a lot of them so we can talk more often at school.

I also wanna hook up with some girls, anyone have any tips to help me out?

thanks! :cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if there is alcohol there....drink a few shots liek 3-4 and everythighn else will hjappen naturally...if not jstu go up to them and be likehey i've seen u around school what grade you kn blah blah blah
 

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Hey, make sure to DRESS ABOVE THE REST!! Then they'll notice you!!:D
 

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actually, if its your first party, I'd say lie a little low. Get your drunk on, make friends and get noticed. but if its jocks, don't wear a tie and sportcoat. Not unless you are THE SHYT and can get away with it.
 

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Drink enough alchy to get you loosened up, like someobe before said its a nature flow to start talking to people.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
actually, if its your first party, I'd say lie a little low. Get your drunk on, make friends and get noticed. but if its jocks, don't wear a tie and sportcoat. Not unless you are THE SHYT and can get away with it.
haha who would wear a tie and a sportcoat to a high school party? this is just a party among friends, is nothing formal.

about the party, if there is alcohol, make sure you make the most out of it, bc a lot of times in high school parties all the stupid kids make the parties get busted. other than that just have fun
 
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