I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why is being an unmarried man "lame" ?st_99 said:This sucks, I have been invited to a friends wedding and yep, I have nobody
to take. Lame.
I can't not go, I would feel like a ****.
So this sucks... advice? Should I be feeling as stupid as I do? I am not
feeling good about this.
dude...weddings really are gold if you go as as single. You are automatically put at a table with mostly other singles and so you have an "in". Just try to have fun and you never know who you are going to meet. Girls at weddings when they are single are hornier and looking for action and fun.st_99 said:This sucks, I have been invited to a friends wedding and yep, I have nobody
to take. Lame.
I can't not go, I would feel like a ****.
So this sucks... advice? Should I be feeling as stupid as I do? I am not
feeling good about this.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Welcome to the toxic, soulless, hateful country of America. In America, going out alone makes you look like a loser to everyone, and you stay alone. American women especially see a man all by himself, and they think; "Ah ha! Rapist! Sex predator! Serial killer! Terrorist! Kidnapper! He's escaped from prison! He's profiled on America's most wanted! Where there's smoke, there's fire!" They also especially say things like; "Stay away from him! Nobody wants to be his friend! He's a loser!" America's toxic, hateful culture only caters to families and closed cliques.This sucks, I have been invited to a friends wedding and yep, I have nobody
to take. Lame.
I can't not go, I would feel like a ****.
So this sucks... advice? Should I be feeling as stupid as I do? I am not
feeling good about this.
do a 30 day challenge. Even when not on a 30day challenge you should be doing Julien's 3x approach a day. Obv, at bars and clubs you go on a rampage but even a trip to the office, 3 approaches is not a difficult thing to do. Acquire digits and vet one for the wedding. If you go alone which I have done before, single women make themselves available.This sucks, I have been invited to a friends wedding and yep, I have nobody
to take. Lame.
I can't not go, I would feel like a ****.
So this sucks... advice? Should I be feeling as stupid as I do? I am not
feeling good about this.
I've easily had my best luck while going to wedding receptions alone (I typically don't go to the church ceremony, LOL). It's like there are is a whole level of woman that seems to never be out & about anywhere else. And I think that single gals get more motivated just by being at a function where another gal is finally getting a husband. The typical b!tch shield seems to be out of commission, although getting the phone number can still be a low probability event. Also, I've had good experiences macking up hot, mature-for-their-age 15 or 16 year old chicksThis sucks, I have been invited to a friends wedding and yep, I have nobody
to take. Lame.
I can't not go, I would feel like a ****.
So this sucks... advice? Should I be feeling as stupid as I do? I am not
feeling good about this.
, although obviously I could not go in for the kill. My friend who was a 33 year old virgin at the time met his wife at a wedding (of course, he had to be led to the water like a very uninterested horse, LOL).
