Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why is being an unmarried man "lame" ?st_99 said:This sucks, I have been invited to a friends wedding and yep, I have nobody
to take. Lame.
I can't not go, I would feel like a ****.
So this sucks... advice? Should I be feeling as stupid as I do? I am not
feeling good about this.
dude...weddings really are gold if you go as as single. You are automatically put at a table with mostly other singles and so you have an "in". Just try to have fun and you never know who you are going to meet. Girls at weddings when they are single are hornier and looking for action and fun.st_99 said:This sucks, I have been invited to a friends wedding and yep, I have nobody
to take. Lame.
I can't not go, I would feel like a ****.
So this sucks... advice? Should I be feeling as stupid as I do? I am not
feeling good about this.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Welcome to the toxic, soulless, hateful country of America. In America, going out alone makes you look like a loser to everyone, and you stay alone. American women especially see a man all by himself, and they think; "Ah ha! Rapist! Sex predator! Serial killer! Terrorist! Kidnapper! He's escaped from prison! He's profiled on America's most wanted! Where there's smoke, there's fire!" They also especially say things like; "Stay away from him! Nobody wants to be his friend! He's a loser!" America's toxic, hateful culture only caters to families and closed cliques.This sucks, I have been invited to a friends wedding and yep, I have nobody
to take. Lame.
I can't not go, I would feel like a ****.
So this sucks... advice? Should I be feeling as stupid as I do? I am not
feeling good about this.
do a 30 day challenge. Even when not on a 30day challenge you should be doing Julien's 3x approach a day. Obv, at bars and clubs you go on a rampage but even a trip to the office, 3 approaches is not a difficult thing to do. Acquire digits and vet one for the wedding. If you go alone which I have done before, single women make themselves available.This sucks, I have been invited to a friends wedding and yep, I have nobody
to take. Lame.
I can't not go, I would feel like a ****.
So this sucks... advice? Should I be feeling as stupid as I do? I am not
feeling good about this.
I've easily had my best luck while going to wedding receptions alone (I typically don't go to the church ceremony, LOL). It's like there are is a whole level of woman that seems to never be out & about anywhere else. And I think that single gals get more motivated just by being at a function where another gal is finally getting a husband. The typical b!tch shield seems to be out of commission, although getting the phone number can still be a low probability event. Also, I've had good experiences macking up hot, mature-for-their-age 15 or 16 year old chicksThis sucks, I have been invited to a friends wedding and yep, I have nobody
to take. Lame.
I can't not go, I would feel like a ****.
So this sucks... advice? Should I be feeling as stupid as I do? I am not
feeling good about this.
, although obviously I could not go in for the kill. My friend who was a 33 year old virgin at the time met his wife at a wedding (of course, he had to be led to the water like a very uninterested horse, LOL).
