Going To A Club Alone

[Robert_F]

Reading another post made me think about this. I don't go to clubs now, but years ago when I did I would often go alone since my friends were either working or had made other plans and couldn't go.

I remember someone tell me that it doesn't "look good" if a guy, (or girl for that matter) goes to a club alone. I never figured out why since, by going alone, I could leave when I want, go somewhere else if I wanted, whatever.

Why do some people say going to a club alone looks bad? I used to see a lot of people walk into the clubs by themselves.

 

[Tictac]

If you listen to what other people say, you will not do things that make sense to you and for you.

 

[logicallefty]

I see no problem with going anywhere alone. I often prefer it. Most of my male friends are blue pill c0ck blockers anyway when it specifically comes to women.

 

[Tictac]

"What the moral? Who rides may read.
When the night is thick and the tracks are blind
A friend at a pinch is a friend, indeed,
But a fool to wait for the laggard behind.
Down to Gehenna or up to the Throne,
He travels the fastest who travels alone."
Rudyard Kipling

 

[bigneil]

Reading another post made me think about this. I don't go to clubs now, but years ago when I did I would often go alone since my friends were either working or had made other plans and couldn't go.

I remember someone tell me that it doesn't "look good" if a guy, (or girl for that matter) goes to a club alone. I never figured out why since, by going alone, I could leave when I want, go somewhere else if I wanted, whatever.

Why do some people say going to a club alone looks bad? I used to see a lot of people walk into the clubs by themselves.

They say this because they are whiny little Beta male sh*t stains who never scored in their life.

As someone who has lived in 25 cities and 12 states, mostly in the last 12 years for business, I go out alone nearly always unless I'm on a date, who I met while alone.

As a general rule not applying to myself, Alphas can go out alone, while Betas and Gammas travel in packs.

 

[casanova_goat]

I go out alone quite regularly. It could be a problem in a small town, when the same patrons, bouncers, bartenders see you by your lonesome all the time and may unfairly label you as "creepy" should you keep to yourself. In the city, on the other hand, the anonymity is liberating.

I still love the freedom of being alone. Many people whom you will encounter (men and women) travel in the company of others and may think it is weird. I think it is inherently confidence, it says: "I am so great, I don't need the presence of anyone else to help me score with women." I just wish more women would see it as that.

 

[Vivacity]

You do whatever you are comfortable with and whatever makes you happy. You are not breaking the law. You are not committing the crime.

Let's say you are going to a club to see if there's a chance to meet a single girl/woman or group of girls/women, will it be easy and comfortable for you to get up and have a friendly chat and talk whatever you want with that girl or group of girls when you are alone or when you are with a group of friends? Further, when you are a regular customer at a particular club and if the bartender/manager knows that you are single and a good man, there's a chance he will try to set you up with another single woman at one of your visits.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Going to a club alone is the best way to go.

Clubs are not good places to meet women. If you really have no other choice, go early (as soon as it opens) and park yourself at the bar. This way you establish some territory and avoid paying the cover. Have a few drinks and mingle with the ladies as they come over and get their first rounds. Game a few, get numbers if you can, then get the hell out. Once the club gets jumping, your chances of bagging a chick just get lower unless you find a horny drunk broad who won't remember you the next day.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I'm in Chicago and I recently have been going out alone, it was the best decision I ever made recently at least. So much easier to game women, no **** blockers and babysitting idiots who can't handle their liquor. It truly is ideal for me and my personality. Pussies go out in backs, I give off an aura of confidence when people find out I go out alone. I'm from Chicago and if you haven't heard its a tough city, going out alone gets me a lot of "be carefuls" when they find out.

 

[cola]

Going alone is the best way to do clubs.

 

[LiveFreeX]

I like dancing, I will go alone all the time... well not anymore, now my wife insists on coming but samesh1t.

Its an easy place to meet people when you can dance (and enjoy it), I dunno about meeting chicks there but you'll get an awful lot of interest.

Raves are better, especially in Asia. More to talk about (if you like the music), hornier women and if in Asia, a foreigner sticks out like crazy among the crowds.

I've had an almost 100% hit rate in asian clubs, even now I get invites to go on stage, talk to the managers, women invite us to their tables (my wife doesn't like that), free drinks. If you can dance, the doors are open.