"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Going speed dating tomorrow

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So my university is holding a speed dating event tomorrow. I'm not really expecting anything other than to have a bit of fun. I doubt that that any of the girls there will be attractive but I could be surprised.

Even though I'm not expecting anything to happen, I don't want to blow any possibilities.

What are some fun questions I can ask to break up the monotony?

What can I do right when I meet a girl to make a good impression?

BTW the event is free and there is going to be free food :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just don't ask the standard questions. Have a fun conversation, be a little daring.
You won't be pulling anybody at the event, but rather at the party/cometogether afterwards ;)

P.S.: there WILL be attractive girls who are just curious.
 

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Heh, I know to avoid the standard questions. Like, where are you from, what do you do, what kind of music do you like, and all that yawn inducing conversation topics.

What can I say to have a fun daring conversation?

Some questions I'm thinking of are; what is your favorite thing about men, why are you single or why did your last relationship end, what do you do for fun, what do you want to do when you graduate, do you kiss on first dates?

I tried to get questions that are out of the ordinary but I know they aren't the best.
 

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The orgainizers want us to show up at a set time so we can check in. But I'll try to mingle if we can. The question that you posted sounds pretty good. I'll add it to my list.
 

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Since it's at school what sort of potential for sexual harassment is there? Would you be liable at all if you asked some upfront but honest questions?

Do you do anal?

Can you suck a golf ball through a garden hose? Can you suck the chrome off a trailer hitch?

Do you like threesomes?

Do you know how to cook?

Do you know how to clean?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"If you ever had to seduce a gay guy, do you think you could handle it.. how would try doing it?"

"If you were locked in a room with at least 20 other clones or twin sisters around you, what would you do specifically to stand out?"

"If we were a couple, and I wanted to hang out with my friends till 2AM in the morning, how would that make you feel?"

"Do you want to kiss me? HER: i don't know. YOU: lets find out." HAHA jus kidding on this one.
 

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Any other responses? I've got less than 24 hours to prepare and I'm going to be at school the whole day tomorrow.

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Since I've used up my daily allotment, yay post limit :down: I'm going to respond here.

I'm afraid of having periods of awkward silence. Guess I might be trying too hard to be prepared.
 
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I went to a speed date thing through school once. It was basically just free wine and girls. And me and my friend just spewed out complete bull**** the whole night.
 

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Maxtro said:
Any other responses? I've got less than 24 hours to prepare and I'm going to be at school the whole day tomorrow.
How many more do you need bro.. its called speed dating for a reason :rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, it was an interesting event.

There were about 40 guys and girls each. Every 3 minutes the guys would move on to the next girl. It was no where near enough time to make a connection. Right when the conversation started going it was time to move on. Also the organizers did not provide name tags. That was a huge mistake as you had to re-ask the person's name at the end. Light snacks were provided but they might as well not be because the guys could only sit down for 3 minutes and there was no time to eat.

Overall the quality of women was average to low, going strictly by looks. This did not surprise me. There were two to thee girls that were 7's. It's without a doubt that the vast majority of guys put yes on their card for them. I think I put yes for 5 or 6 girls.

One annoyance was that some of the girls tried to take the lead in the conversation. And they'd always ask the same questions, "what's your major, what year are you." I quickly learned to combine answers and the those questions out of the way and get to more interesting stuff. A surprising number of girls said they were there to give moral support for their friends. I wonder how true that answer really is.

I do not expect anybody that I put yes for to put yes for me. If that does happen I will be pleasantly surprised. Overall it was something to get my out of my shell. It was fun talking to so many girls at once.

If anybody is considering doing speed dating, go in with the thought that it's just about having fun and ilt's good practice for sociallizing.
 

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Get The Speed Dating Guide

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My friend wants to do this, but everywhere around here they only seem to do it for people aged 25+
 

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I attended one a few years ago when I had recently moved to a new city. It was interesting. Same results, one attractive girl, several 5's and many chubbies. I got matched with the hottie, I'm sure everyone did. lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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