"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Going slightly limp on a chick I just met IRL.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
everywomanshero
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I've had a couple of similar episodes. The girl just didn't get into it enough for me. She wanted to jump straight into doing it, but she was basically playing dead fish.
Usually these types of chicks are just trying to get prego in my experience. In your case, maybe she was just really drunk. If she asks you to not use a condom and says she doesn't like them before your next encounter, I'd be extremely leary. She might be daddy shopping.
Aside from that, I've found the best way to prevent "problems" is to not masterbate, doing some kind of cardio a few times a week, and eat whole food items. When this happened to me I was eating a lot of balance bars, high meat intake, etc. I can't prove that had anything to do with it, but after I quit eating that way I went back to being a sex crazed animal within a week.
hahah @ daddy shopping.. scary thought tho.. no she def. wasnt daddy shopping she didnt wanna **** anymore after the condom broke.. but i definatly think it has something to do with diet and working out... back in april when i used to work out i never had this problem, but since early may i didnt work out at all, and last month or so all i've been eating is chicken breast with not many carbs... i gotta start eating oats and oatmeal.. so maybe it has something to do with diet or me just not being attracted to her that much.. dont know
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Plus, you dont want to piss her off too much... scorned women take revenge... she could say you raped her.Originally posted by rawsync
what else should i say? i dont want to make her fell all that bad... but if i have to to save my reputation i will
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.