"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Going slightly limp on a chick I just met IRL.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I've had a couple of similar episodes. The girl just didn't get into it enough for me. She wanted to jump straight into doing it, but she was basically playing dead fish.
Usually these types of chicks are just trying to get prego in my experience. In your case, maybe she was just really drunk. If she asks you to not use a condom and says she doesn't like them before your next encounter, I'd be extremely leary. She might be daddy shopping.
Aside from that, I've found the best way to prevent "problems" is to not masterbate, doing some kind of cardio a few times a week, and eat whole food items. When this happened to me I was eating a lot of balance bars, high meat intake, etc. I can't prove that had anything to do with it, but after I quit eating that way I went back to being a sex crazed animal within a week.
hahah @ daddy shopping.. scary thought tho.. no she def. wasnt daddy shopping she didnt wanna **** anymore after the condom broke.. but i definatly think it has something to do with diet and working out... back in april when i used to work out i never had this problem, but since early may i didnt work out at all, and last month or so all i've been eating is chicken breast with not many carbs... i gotta start eating oats and oatmeal.. so maybe it has something to do with diet or me just not being attracted to her that much.. dont know
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Plus, you dont want to piss her off too much... scorned women take revenge... she could say you raped her.Originally posted by rawsync
what else should i say? i dont want to make her fell all that bad... but if i have to to save my reputation i will
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.