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Going out with your boy and his girlfriend, AFC?

Zero123

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If you go out to pick up chicks at the bar with one of your boys and his girlfriend, is that an AFC move? I might have to do this tonight and I'm thinking it might not even be worth it. My thoughts are that this demonstrates very low social value since you are kinda the 3rd wheel or something and you basically look like the loser who couldnt show up with a chick too.

Am I thinking too much about this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

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f283000

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Why can't you just go there with the mindset of having a few drinks and a little fun with 2 friends? why do you bring yourself down for what others *might* think of you? do you think an alpha male is going to be worried about what some people he doesn't even know think of him?

Do you think an alpha male is going to be thinking "o geez i don't wanna go to a bar with my friend and his gal, people might see me and i might look like the odd man out"
 

Captin Krunch

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I dont kno if its a AFC move...you COULD look at it as going out with 2 friends...but me personally...I HATEE being the tag along!
 

comic_relief

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I would just invite some of my own friends out along with the guy and his gf.

I always have a group of five or more people go out with me :)

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AFC is stupid

why would you care about what some random noobs at a bar think?

I'd go alone if I had to and still pull some ass
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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