"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Going out with your boy and his girlfriend, AFC?

Zero123

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If you go out to pick up chicks at the bar with one of your boys and his girlfriend, is that an AFC move? I might have to do this tonight and I'm thinking it might not even be worth it. My thoughts are that this demonstrates very low social value since you are kinda the 3rd wheel or something and you basically look like the loser who couldnt show up with a chick too.

Am I thinking too much about this?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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f283000

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Why can't you just go there with the mindset of having a few drinks and a little fun with 2 friends? why do you bring yourself down for what others *might* think of you? do you think an alpha male is going to be worried about what some people he doesn't even know think of him?

Do you think an alpha male is going to be thinking "o geez i don't wanna go to a bar with my friend and his gal, people might see me and i might look like the odd man out"
 

Captin Krunch

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I dont kno if its a AFC move...you COULD look at it as going out with 2 friends...but me personally...I HATEE being the tag along!
 

comic_relief

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I would just invite some of my own friends out along with the guy and his gf.

I always have a group of five or more people go out with me :)

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AFC is stupid

why would you care about what some random noobs at a bar think?

I'd go alone if I had to and still pull some ass
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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