Going out with her and her friends?

[elmnick]

I tried to get together with girl I'm interested in, but the two days I suggested she was busy on. She's out with her friends on friday, some of whom I know a little, some not at all, don't quite know who's going, she suggested I join them, "but i'd have to ask them". Good idea/ bad idea what do you think?

 

[War Against Betaism]

I personally wouldn't do it. The last time I went out with a girl I like who was with all her friends, I was ushered out of the conversation and felt like a 4th wheel. Though if you really do want to go, you would have to risk annoying them. Take control of the conversation, be the most interesting person, but it's hit or miss. Most importantly, have a strong and loud voice. Having a strong and loud voice reflects power, which means what you have to say is important.

 

[john paul]

DONT DO IT. Tell her your going to just hang out with your friends instead and try to make plans for next week.


If shes still "too busy" to hang out then shes not interested or too nervious to hang out with you alone.

I dont feel like explainning fully unless you want me to but from past experienses I have had with this situation it always ended being a waste of my time.