"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Going out with her and her friends?

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elmnick

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I tried to get together with girl I'm interested in, but the two days I suggested she was busy on. She's out with her friends on friday, some of whom I know a little, some not at all, don't quite know who's going, she suggested I join them, "but i'd have to ask them". Good idea/ bad idea what do you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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War Against Betaism

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I personally wouldn't do it. The last time I went out with a girl I like who was with all her friends, I was ushered out of the conversation and felt like a 4th wheel. Though if you really do want to go, you would have to risk annoying them. Take control of the conversation, be the most interesting person, but it's hit or miss. Most importantly, have a strong and loud voice. Having a strong and loud voice reflects power, which means what you have to say is important.
 
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john paul

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DONT DO IT. Tell her your going to just hang out with your friends instead and try to make plans for next week.


If shes still "too busy" to hang out then shes not interested or too nervious to hang out with you alone.

I dont feel like explainning fully unless you want me to but from past experienses I have had with this situation it always ended being a waste of my time.
 
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