"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Going out with chicks that work in stores.

nonameok

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I think this would be cold approaching, but slightly warmer especially if you see her there a lot. I'm in that situation now. I've made good rapport with a girl and I think if I number closed, I will be successful.

Just wondering if anyone here dated a chick that worked at a store, restaurant or some other establishment? How did it turn out? Did she know a lot about you before the first date?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nonameok said:
I think this would be cold approaching, but slightly warmer especially if you see her there a lot. I'm in that situation now. I've made good rapport with a girl and I think if I number closed, I will be successful.

Just wondering if anyone here dated a chick that worked at a store, restaurant or some other establishment? How did it turn out? Did she know a lot about you before the first date?
I've dated women who've worked in stores before. One worked at a Wal-Mart,and another worked at a fast food place. In this type of environment,you basically can bypass a so-called "opener". You don't need one,especially if she works at a register.
It went well overall,one girl I dated for like 7 months,and another I dated for a little over a year. But why are you asking this question? I thought you decided that asexuality was for you. You are the one who started that thread,right?
 

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Haha, I number closed a girl at Guess Clothing two weeks ago, we got together and you probably know the rest.

I'm not sure that situation would change things much, just game on. If anything, it's easier. Chances are if business is slow she'll be bored, so it's a golden opportunity to speak to her.

Use things around the store to flirt with her, IE a piece of clothing; if she tells you one thing will look good on you, take something about that clothing and make fun of the girl (For example: Why would you pick that! It's so ugly! Do you want me to be a geek?) Something light and funny.
 
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