"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Going out with chicks that work in stores.

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I think this would be cold approaching, but slightly warmer especially if you see her there a lot. I'm in that situation now. I've made good rapport with a girl and I think if I number closed, I will be successful.

Just wondering if anyone here dated a chick that worked at a store, restaurant or some other establishment? How did it turn out? Did she know a lot about you before the first date?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nonameok said:
I think this would be cold approaching, but slightly warmer especially if you see her there a lot. I'm in that situation now. I've made good rapport with a girl and I think if I number closed, I will be successful.

Just wondering if anyone here dated a chick that worked at a store, restaurant or some other establishment? How did it turn out? Did she know a lot about you before the first date?
I've dated women who've worked in stores before. One worked at a Wal-Mart,and another worked at a fast food place. In this type of environment,you basically can bypass a so-called "opener". You don't need one,especially if she works at a register.
It went well overall,one girl I dated for like 7 months,and another I dated for a little over a year. But why are you asking this question? I thought you decided that asexuality was for you. You are the one who started that thread,right?
 

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Haha, I number closed a girl at Guess Clothing two weeks ago, we got together and you probably know the rest.

I'm not sure that situation would change things much, just game on. If anything, it's easier. Chances are if business is slow she'll be bored, so it's a golden opportunity to speak to her.

Use things around the store to flirt with her, IE a piece of clothing; if she tells you one thing will look good on you, take something about that clothing and make fun of the girl (For example: Why would you pick that! It's so ugly! Do you want me to be a geek?) Something light and funny.
 
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