"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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going out with a girl for 2 years...

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DonCharlie24

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ive been going out with this girl for 2 years and some months

the last 3 months i just havent been happy, we started spending less time together, we argue all the time, etc.

i really love this girl though, she was my first love and as much as it hurts to say, i faced reality and figured that im never gonna be happy while im with her, so im just looking for some advice on maybe how to get over this or how to go about things or something. thanks ahead guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She will do you NO good in the long run....the first step is realizing, and you have done just that. The easiest way to get over a "one- itis" is to go out sarging....go to some parties, sarge at a mall, go to some teen clubs....it will get your mind off this chick.

I had a similar situation about a year ago.....tust me, you always think the relationship is special, when it is your FIRST love....happens to the best of us.

Good Luck
~Smooth
 
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actually im not as afc as it seems, haha. i mean i talk to other girls at the time, flirt with them etc but i never mess or do anything morally "wrong" cause of the relationship

but its just that "first love" that makes me slip up, idk, she's been my one and only for so long. thats my baby ya know. any other guys here have that problem? what did u do? whats ur advice to me?

we've actually broken up and gotten back together a few times, any ideas?
 
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