"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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going out with a girl for 2 years...

DonCharlie24

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ive been going out with this girl for 2 years and some months

the last 3 months i just havent been happy, we started spending less time together, we argue all the time, etc.

i really love this girl though, she was my first love and as much as it hurts to say, i faced reality and figured that im never gonna be happy while im with her, so im just looking for some advice on maybe how to get over this or how to go about things or something. thanks ahead guys.
 

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Smooth Player 056

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She will do you NO good in the long run....the first step is realizing, and you have done just that. The easiest way to get over a "one- itis" is to go out sarging....go to some parties, sarge at a mall, go to some teen clubs....it will get your mind off this chick.

I had a similar situation about a year ago.....tust me, you always think the relationship is special, when it is your FIRST love....happens to the best of us.

Good Luck
~Smooth
 

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actually im not as afc as it seems, haha. i mean i talk to other girls at the time, flirt with them etc but i never mess or do anything morally "wrong" cause of the relationship

but its just that "first love" that makes me slip up, idk, she's been my one and only for so long. thats my baby ya know. any other guys here have that problem? what did u do? whats ur advice to me?

we've actually broken up and gotten back together a few times, any ideas?
 
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