"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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going out w/ girl from work TONIGHT need help asap

neonlimited

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so ive been doing everything dj the last 2 days with this 1 girl from work, and tonight SHE asked me to hang out, i was just wondering what should we do and how should i act?? thx
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FreshAir1z

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go to a movie and dinner, just be yourself.
 

Canadianpimpology

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CHANGE something up on her. Don't do exactly what she wants. If she wants you to go to dinner with her, take charge and tell her what restaurant. If she wants you to go to the movies, tell her what movie you guys will see.

CHANGE the time on her. If she's free at 6, say that you'll probably be busy at that time but maybe around 7 or 8 would work better.

The ball is in your court, take that control and keep it.
 
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