"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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going out w/ girl from work TONIGHT need help asap

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so ive been doing everything dj the last 2 days with this 1 girl from work, and tonight SHE asked me to hang out, i was just wondering what should we do and how should i act?? thx
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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go to a movie and dinner, just be yourself.
 
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CHANGE something up on her. Don't do exactly what she wants. If she wants you to go to dinner with her, take charge and tell her what restaurant. If she wants you to go to the movies, tell her what movie you guys will see.

CHANGE the time on her. If she's free at 6, say that you'll probably be busy at that time but maybe around 7 or 8 would work better.

The ball is in your court, take that control and keep it.
 
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