"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Going out on the town after sex?!

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Quiksilver

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My girlfriend likes going out to socialize after sex...what gives?

All I want to do is flip on the tele and watch some cartoons after givin'er for an hour.

It's weird cause she comes over somtimes in the afternoon for some stick, then she wants to go out partying again...I'm the one with the car, so she gets pretty bloody annoying when she doesn't get her way.

I'm wondering how to handle this...Just lay it down and tell her to stfu, or play Mr.NiceGuy and hang around with her? She's a 9 in my books, so I wouldn't mind keeping her for awhile. I just don't want her to get so ****in sociable right when I feel like hangin out. Don't know if she's uncomfortable with chillin, or what...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She's just bored cuz she doesn't have the same post-sex sleep inducing chemicals running through her brain that you do. Why not hold off sex until after you guys are done with your social activities?
 
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Are you sure you are pleasing her? are you positive she isnt faking it?
 
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Thomas94305

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I wouldn't make too much of this. I shared an apartment with a couple of guys in college. When one guy and his gf got done, he'd be in the bedroom going ZZZZZZZZZZ. She'd come out, interrupt my studying, and tell me about it.:rolleyes: He told me this is typical for them. After they get done, she's on a high, wants to run around the block, go out to eat, etc.. and he's ZZZZZZZZZZZ.

Who knows, maybe our chemistry is different. Men's testosterone drops, but women go through some other chemical stew.
 
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