"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Going out on the town after sex?!

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Quiksilver

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My girlfriend likes going out to socialize after sex...what gives?

All I want to do is flip on the tele and watch some cartoons after givin'er for an hour.

It's weird cause she comes over somtimes in the afternoon for some stick, then she wants to go out partying again...I'm the one with the car, so she gets pretty bloody annoying when she doesn't get her way.

I'm wondering how to handle this...Just lay it down and tell her to stfu, or play Mr.NiceGuy and hang around with her? She's a 9 in my books, so I wouldn't mind keeping her for awhile. I just don't want her to get so ****in sociable right when I feel like hangin out. Don't know if she's uncomfortable with chillin, or what...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's just bored cuz she doesn't have the same post-sex sleep inducing chemicals running through her brain that you do. Why not hold off sex until after you guys are done with your social activities?
 
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Are you sure you are pleasing her? are you positive she isnt faking it?
 
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Thomas94305

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I wouldn't make too much of this. I shared an apartment with a couple of guys in college. When one guy and his gf got done, he'd be in the bedroom going ZZZZZZZZZZ. She'd come out, interrupt my studying, and tell me about it.:rolleyes: He told me this is typical for them. After they get done, she's on a high, wants to run around the block, go out to eat, etc.. and he's ZZZZZZZZZZZ.

Who knows, maybe our chemistry is different. Men's testosterone drops, but women go through some other chemical stew.
 
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