Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Going out on the town after sex?!

Quiksilver

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My girlfriend likes going out to socialize after sex...what gives?

All I want to do is flip on the tele and watch some cartoons after givin'er for an hour.

It's weird cause she comes over somtimes in the afternoon for some stick, then she wants to go out partying again...I'm the one with the car, so she gets pretty bloody annoying when she doesn't get her way.

I'm wondering how to handle this...Just lay it down and tell her to stfu, or play Mr.NiceGuy and hang around with her? She's a 9 in my books, so I wouldn't mind keeping her for awhile. I just don't want her to get so ****in sociable right when I feel like hangin out. Don't know if she's uncomfortable with chillin, or what...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Rex Man

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She's just bored cuz she doesn't have the same post-sex sleep inducing chemicals running through her brain that you do. Why not hold off sex until after you guys are done with your social activities?
 

Mjazz

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Are you sure you are pleasing her? are you positive she isnt faking it?
 

Thomas94305

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I wouldn't make too much of this. I shared an apartment with a couple of guys in college. When one guy and his gf got done, he'd be in the bedroom going ZZZZZZZZZZ. She'd come out, interrupt my studying, and tell me about it.:rolleyes: He told me this is typical for them. After they get done, she's on a high, wants to run around the block, go out to eat, etc.. and he's ZZZZZZZZZZZ.

Who knows, maybe our chemistry is different. Men's testosterone drops, but women go through some other chemical stew.
 
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