Hello y'all, im a confident guy with no problem meeting girls but my problem is that i naturaly dont like taking girls out on dates(mainly because im not used to those environment). I'll welcome any advice on how to tackle this issue or any other way to sustain the chemistry. By the way HAPPY NEW YEAR Y'ALL
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Going out is my probs!!!
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
eaglez1177
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If you dont like to physically go out on a date (such as a dinner date, movie date, etc), bring the chick back to YOUR HOUSE. A lot of guys overlook this option. Nothings better than hooking up with a chick on a comfortable couch in your basement watching a movie.
Plec07
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How old are you? Do you have a car? You'd be surprised how well a good drive on some really nice country roads with some tunes works as a date. Just don't do anything stupid trying to "show off" it's not very impressive when you have to wipe make-up off the dash.
Otherwise just a local cafe? We have one on our highstreet which is a comfortable location cos I go there often with mates or girls, and am mates with the staff. You might not have a similar place but if you do try going there a couple days a week, making friends with the locals ect.
Another option would be the local pub, but only if your old enough. It gives a similar environment to the cafe.
Otherwise just a local cafe? We have one on our highstreet which is a comfortable location cos I go there often with mates or girls, and am mates with the staff. You might not have a similar place but if you do try going there a couple days a week, making friends with the locals ect.
Another option would be the local pub, but only if your old enough. It gives a similar environment to the cafe.
eaglez1177
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A no gal rule? Give me a break. You gotta talk to your parents and tell them that your not fvcking gay and you want to have a girl over.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Or tell them you are gay.... They might react by replacing the no gal rule with a no guy rule.eaglez1177 said:
Worth a shot even if it's just for sh*ts and giggles.
LOL...Plec07 and eaglez117 yeah guess it would work out that way. Am taking ur suggestions into execution and im open to more and more afterall i am not going out with a one-night-stand type or am aint dating 2 gals alone till enternity.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Sounds good dude, keeps us up to date, yeah?