Hello y'all, im a confident guy with no problem meeting girls but my problem is that i naturaly dont like taking girls out on dates(mainly because im not used to those environment). I'll welcome any advice on how to tackle this issue or any other way to sustain the chemistry. By the way HAPPY NEW YEAR Y'ALL
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Going out is my probs!!!
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
eaglez1177
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If you dont like to physically go out on a date (such as a dinner date, movie date, etc), bring the chick back to YOUR HOUSE. A lot of guys overlook this option. Nothings better than hooking up with a chick on a comfortable couch in your basement watching a movie.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
How old are you? Do you have a car? You'd be surprised how well a good drive on some really nice country roads with some tunes works as a date. Just don't do anything stupid trying to "show off" it's not very impressive when you have to wipe make-up off the dash.
Otherwise just a local cafe? We have one on our highstreet which is a comfortable location cos I go there often with mates or girls, and am mates with the staff. You might not have a similar place but if you do try going there a couple days a week, making friends with the locals ect.
Another option would be the local pub, but only if your old enough. It gives a similar environment to the cafe.
Otherwise just a local cafe? We have one on our highstreet which is a comfortable location cos I go there often with mates or girls, and am mates with the staff. You might not have a similar place but if you do try going there a couple days a week, making friends with the locals ect.
Another option would be the local pub, but only if your old enough. It gives a similar environment to the cafe.
eaglez1177
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A no gal rule? Give me a break. You gotta talk to your parents and tell them that your not fvcking gay and you want to have a girl over.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Or tell them you are gay.... They might react by replacing the no gal rule with a no guy rule.eaglez1177 said:
Worth a shot even if it's just for sh*ts and giggles.
LOL...Plec07 and eaglez117 yeah guess it would work out that way. Am taking ur suggestions into execution and im open to more and more afterall i am not going out with a one-night-stand type or am aint dating 2 gals alone till enternity.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Sounds good dude, keeps us up to date, yeah?