RichardTheFrog
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How the fvck are you gonna get to know someone over less than an hour of sitting across a table from someone?
What is this nonsense bull$h1t.
What is this nonsense bull$h1t.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Going on dates is pointless, yet necessary?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Who keeps giving Richard computer access at the looney bin
RichardTheFrog
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Just for snitching I'm going to carve my username into your Lamborghini
ask your dad take pc access from you
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I don't think so, he keeps it cunningly hidden inside an imaginary garage. Apparently the objective of Inception 2 is to key Richard's car by leaping into the dreamspace.
never go for this kind of date. always go for a walk. so you dont pay for her
RichardTheFrog
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The $10 isn't the issue.
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RichardTheFrog
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Huh?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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The purpose of dating is to relax and have fun. You don't have to get to know her entirely in 1 hour.
I've had first dates that go on for four or five hours and end in a kiss, sometimes they don't. Either way it was fun, I usually get something good to eat, company for a night's pretty chilled anyway. It's about just generating an atmosphere you enjoy. What sort of dates do you normally do?