"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Going on a date with her & friend question

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Here's the deal:

I met a girl, who lives about an hour away. She tells me she's going to be in my town this weekend and that I should go out with her and her friend. Am I in the wrong to decline this offer? The reason why I don't like the situation is I sort of feel like I'm put in a position to win over this girl AND her friend. If her friend, for whatever reason, doesn't like me...she could seriously ****block me by influencing my target. My point is, people act differently when they're with friends as opposed to being alone and since this is a first date it really puts me at a disadvantage. Opinions on this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't have much experience with this thing. But you should just beable to be a "man" and then be fine.
Also, if you're going out with two chicks, it's not a "date".

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Unless you get a threesome going, lol. Then I guess you can call it a date.
 
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normally i wouldnt go because it would cost me..if u got cash then go for it. Just be casual and relaxed and have fun but I think u cant get really intimate with the one who asked you out. But you could still go for it to gain her friend as a powerful ally!!
 
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The key here as stated by GGTW and Made is to basically to go out on a date with both of them, but direct MOST of the conversation towards the friend, since the date will be generally quiet while watching the two of you interact......this will work double to your advantage because the friend will actually do the gaming for you while you are not around since you've already charmed her pants off, and all you have to do is sit back after the date and let her do all the work for you."OMG, he is SO funny Sandy, he is just the greatest guy. Doesn't he have the cutest ass *giggle giggle* you are SO lucky!"....all this attention towards the friend will create just the right amount of jealousy in the date (and we ALL know how powerful and emotion jealousy is)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah, it's not a "date".

To me, it REEKS of "LJBF" or simply "I don't trust you."

Like everyone said, if you go, mack on her friend. Make her jealous. :D
 
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what do you have to loose?

Go for it and if it sucks leave. More fish in the sea.
 
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