Going On A Date With A Chick You FORGOT You Aleready Hooked Up With

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I Went on a date last night with a woman, she came back to my place and instantly started telling me stuff about myself that she couldn't have known cause I didn't tell her. Come to find out we supposedly smashed 8 years ago, and then I ghosted her, she seemed very upset about that, but more upset that I didn't remember.

Honestly if you were to ask me to write a list of every woman I hooked up with, especially in the last 10 years I wouldn't remember. I'm not saying this as a flex or to brag but I have a tendency to forget women that I only hung out with once or dealt with once

Is anyone else in the same shoes?
 
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I'm not saying this as a flex or to brag but I have a tendency to forget women that I only hung out with once or dealt with once
I believe you.
 

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I'd berate her for having low self esteem, even her entertaining this is such a huge red flag, hopefully your doing better than you were at least and she's not sliding down hill
 

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I’ve bumped into women I’ve banged 20 years ago. Having my daughters injections done when she was 2, I had to hold her in my lap and the nurse leaned in, we made eye contact and I realised I’d done all sorts with this women. Awkward.
 

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I Went on a date last night with a woman, she came back to my place and instantly started telling me stuff about myself that she couldn't have known cause I didn't tell her. Come to find out we supposedly smashed 8 years ago, and then I ghosted her, she seemed very upset about that, but more upset that I didn't remember.

Honestly if you were to ask me to write a list of every woman I hooked up with, especially in the last 10 years I wouldn't remember. I'm not saying this as a flex or to brag but I have a tendency to forget women that I only hung out with once or dealt with once

Is anyone else in the same shoes?
Funny how she waited until you thought you had the score to make the reveal.
 

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I'd berate her for having low self esteem, even her entertaining this is such a huge red flag, hopefully your doing better than you were at least and she's not sliding down hill
Honestly, it got awkward when she started tearing up, the weird part was, she kept waiting for me to remember her and for the life of me I couldn't. She was supposed to spend the night and ended up leaving early which I had no issue with, another girl came over an hour or so later

Not going to lie her crying about me ghosting her after a hook up and I have no clue even as I type this to any of said events
Funny how she waited until you thought you had the score to make the reveal.
Could be that but also could be she remembered my place, the crazy part was I didn't remember her but she remembered everything all of a sudden once she came to my place. It got weird very fast after that

I’ve bumped into women I’ve banged 20 years ago. Having my daughters injections done when she was 2, I had to hold her in my lap and the nurse leaned in, we made eye contact and I realised I’d done all sorts with this women. Awkward.
The whole night was awkward after that but as she was leaving (early) she told me I had permission to contact her again, I found it very odd, it absolutely ruined the mood and vibe. I have no plans of contacting her again although she has reached out.

Oh, boy. I wish I was in your shoes.
Nope, it was an awkward and weird situation that I don't wish on anyone. I use to go on a lot of first dates, especially from 2008-2013. For me to remember would be insane unless I kept a list or spreadsheet which I always found a tad odd for guys who did that
 

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I Went on a date last night with a woman, she came back to my place and instantly started telling me stuff about myself that she couldn't have known cause I didn't tell her. Come to find out we supposedly smashed 8 years ago, and then I ghosted her, she seemed very upset about that, but more upset that I didn't remember.

Honestly if you were to ask me to write a list of every woman I hooked up with, especially in the last 10 years I wouldn't remember. I'm not saying this as a flex or to brag but I have a tendency to forget women that I only hung out with once or dealt with once

Is anyone else in the same shoes?
I never had one I fuhked and couldn't remember come back into my life, but I did have one that had a crush on me come back into my life 15yrs later. We were at a party and once she figured out who I was she came up to me and asked me if I remembered her. The first place my brain went was, ohh no this is some chic I fuhked once and forgot about. I knew I recognized her but barely and couldn't recall from where. We talked for an hour and turns out she was a chic that worked for the same company I did. I realized she must of had some major crush on me because she sure knew a lot about my life over the years.

For a girl to get upset about a guy not remembering her is a little rediculous. I get that it hurts her feelings, but getting overly emotional about it says a lot about her.
 

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I never had one I fuhked and couldn't remember come back into my life, but I did have one that had a crush on me come back into my life 15yrs later. We were at a party and once she figured out who I was she came up to me and asked me if I remembered her. The first place my brain went was, ohh no this is some chic I fuhked once and forgot about. I knew I recognized her but barely and couldn't recall from where. We talked for an hour and turns out she was a chic that worked for the same company I did. I realized she must of had some major crush on me because she sure knew a lot about my life over the years.

For a girl to get upset about a guy not remembering her is a little rediculous. I get that it hurts her feelings, but getting overly emotional about it says a lot about her.
I got a bad memory I use to write my FR's and that's how I remembered alot of the women in my early days but as I get older, and the countless first dates/meets/ONS I've had especially in the last 16 years there are only 3 types women that stand out

1. Women whom I truly fancied
2. Women Who stuck around the longest i.e. Girlfriends, situationships etc
3. A crazy woman or some crazy drama

Women that I smashed once whether good or bad, unless it was exceptional I'm not going to remember and heck I know there are women whom don't remember hooking up with me cause they have reached out acting clueless. One chick I hooked up with from Tinder a month later she matched with me and didn't remember until I reminded her
 

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I Went on a date last night with a woman, she came back to my place and instantly started telling me stuff about myself that she couldn't have known cause I didn't tell her
Delighted and relieved that this "chick" didn't then tear off "her" Mission Impossible-esque mask and wig, turn out to be Derren Brown :oops: o_O
 

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I once dated and fck a girl that I had tried to date (failed one time opener) maybe two years before… neither of us mentioned this at any point.. to this day I sometimes wonder if she knew all the time or had she sincerely forgotten. Oh well.
 

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I once dated and fck a girl that I had tried to date (failed one time opener) maybe two years before… neither of us mentioned this at any point.. to this day I sometimes wonder if she knew all the time or had she sincerely forgotten. Oh well.
I've had chicks circle back years after (5-10 years) wanting to date again(most were 1 dates at best or ONS) but they didn't remember me, usually, this happens on OLD, what I see is

1. The chicks are perpetually single cause they are serial daters and most likely have racked up a high body count, I've had women admit to that for fun she wanted to see if she could go on 30 dates in 30 days and not pay(she accomplished this easily). This girl is an acquittance at best and I would rate her a 5 at best. But imagine what options a girl has who is a 7+

2. Girls get in LTR's forget about you then years later try to connect via OLD

I think the worse is a friend's ex-wife tried to match with me recently on an app, that was weird especially cause she knows who I am having met me
 

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Women that I smashed once whether good or bad, unless it was exceptional I'm not going to remember and heck I know there are women whom don't remember hooking up with me cause they have reached out acting clueless. One chick I hooked up with from Tinder a month later she matched with me and didn't remember until I reminded her
There’s one chick off OLD that has swiped right on me 2-3 times in the intervening years since I bionked her. It was an ONS, and I was sure she was getting around a lot at the time. I certainly closed the deal with her, but she gave me a weird vibe so went NC. She had a great body but the act was underwhelming at best.
 

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There’s one chick off OLD that has swiped right on me 2-3 times in the intervening years since I bionked her. It was an ONS, and I was sure she was getting around a lot at the time. I certainly closed the deal with her, but she gave me a weird vibe so went NC. She had a great body but the act was underwhelming at best.
If men really knew how some of these women in OLD get around, I mean some women really do get around a lot
Typically these are the same women that you see for years on end online and wonder "Why is she using OLD?"
I remember I use to ask myself that a lot until you met some of these women in person or offline than see them online
There are some major thots using these apps that are literally for everyone (that she likes)
I remember there was a time I would share notes with buddies cause there would be overlap with chicks
In regards to which chicks to stay away from
Tends to happen a lot especially if you live in a "Small Town"
 
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