"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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going on a date, and no money :(

littleman0603

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So when you're 16 and Asian, your parents are like "focus on your schoolwork!"
and they dont let you WORK DAMMIT!

so, whats in my pocket... a girls cell phone number but no cash. called her and were going to the movies, but NO CASH . lol

any suggestions on getting some side cash?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Go on dates that don't cost much (or anything)

Depending on the area you live in...

A trip to the beach/tide pools. A lot of museums have a student day or something like that where you can get in very cheaply or sometimes free. If there are botanical gardens in the area they usually don't cost anything. Picnic at the park. Flying a kite. Hiking.

Bum money from your parents since they won't let you work.
 

Triple T

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haha, i feel you bro. I'm asian too and my parents are somewhat used to be strict about my schoolwork, but even with all the education you get, its nothing if you don't have any good social skills and experience. Thats where a job comes in. Persuade your parents bro. Tell them you'll work like once a week, and that it'll teach you money management. :up: (make it sound smart! and seem like it'll help your education further)

Look at your local classified ads, look in the Job section and they're might be some casual labour that people need some. (I once made $21/hour for painting a fence with my friend!!! I know! Its crazy!)

Look around, ask your family members if they need help with anything.
You can get money easily, you just gotta look hard enough.


good luck bro! :up:
 
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