"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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going on a date, and no money :(

littleman0603

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So when you're 16 and Asian, your parents are like "focus on your schoolwork!"
and they dont let you WORK DAMMIT!

so, whats in my pocket... a girls cell phone number but no cash. called her and were going to the movies, but NO CASH . lol

any suggestions on getting some side cash?
 

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Go on dates that don't cost much (or anything)

Depending on the area you live in...

A trip to the beach/tide pools. A lot of museums have a student day or something like that where you can get in very cheaply or sometimes free. If there are botanical gardens in the area they usually don't cost anything. Picnic at the park. Flying a kite. Hiking.

Bum money from your parents since they won't let you work.
 

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haha, i feel you bro. I'm asian too and my parents are somewhat used to be strict about my schoolwork, but even with all the education you get, its nothing if you don't have any good social skills and experience. Thats where a job comes in. Persuade your parents bro. Tell them you'll work like once a week, and that it'll teach you money management. :up: (make it sound smart! and seem like it'll help your education further)

Look at your local classified ads, look in the Job section and they're might be some casual labour that people need some. (I once made $21/hour for painting a fence with my friend!!! I know! Its crazy!)

Look around, ask your family members if they need help with anything.
You can get money easily, you just gotta look hard enough.


good luck bro! :up:
 
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