"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Going on a 5 day school trip to Edmonton

CarpeDiem

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Well, in exactly two weeks I will be heading out with 80 some odd other students on a guitar/band trip to Edmonton. We are all staying in a hotel with 4 people to a room. My best friend who is also going and is staying in my room has pretty much arranged with a room of girls to hang out with them in the hotel when we have free time and whatnot. He's got a girlfriend that is not going so he won't be messing around with them or anything. (although, I'm sure if he wanted to he could) He told me I should try to get closer to/hook up with this one girl that we are going to be hanging with. She's pretty hot, so I said sure, I'll give it a go.

I guess you could say I'm an AFC. My social situation is kind of weird. I hang out with all the regular cool guys, but If I want, I also hang out withe everyone else. I'm kinda like everyones friend, I have no enemies and most people like me.

Basically what I'm asking for is some general advice on how to get to know her a little better. I need some tips on how to single her out and show her that I want her. Anything would be appreciated. I realize that this trip has HUGE potential for me, so I can't mess it up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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read the bible, seriously. read all you need to know the next 3 days or so... then the rest of the time you need to practice talking to chicks and get confident.

you pretty much need to step up your game until the trip.

heres the bible: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

i'd love to hear how you do.

if you have SPECIFIC things to ask, i'll be glad to help.
 

ManiacJack

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I live near there... lol
 
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