Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Going on a 5 day school trip to Edmonton

CarpeDiem

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Well, in exactly two weeks I will be heading out with 80 some odd other students on a guitar/band trip to Edmonton. We are all staying in a hotel with 4 people to a room. My best friend who is also going and is staying in my room has pretty much arranged with a room of girls to hang out with them in the hotel when we have free time and whatnot. He's got a girlfriend that is not going so he won't be messing around with them or anything. (although, I'm sure if he wanted to he could) He told me I should try to get closer to/hook up with this one girl that we are going to be hanging with. She's pretty hot, so I said sure, I'll give it a go.

I guess you could say I'm an AFC. My social situation is kind of weird. I hang out with all the regular cool guys, but If I want, I also hang out withe everyone else. I'm kinda like everyones friend, I have no enemies and most people like me.

Basically what I'm asking for is some general advice on how to get to know her a little better. I need some tips on how to single her out and show her that I want her. Anything would be appreciated. I realize that this trip has HUGE potential for me, so I can't mess it up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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read the bible, seriously. read all you need to know the next 3 days or so... then the rest of the time you need to practice talking to chicks and get confident.

you pretty much need to step up your game until the trip.

heres the bible: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

i'd love to hear how you do.

if you have SPECIFIC things to ask, i'll be glad to help.
 

ManiacJack

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I live near there... lol
 
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