"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Going on a 5 day school trip to Edmonton

CarpeDiem

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Well, in exactly two weeks I will be heading out with 80 some odd other students on a guitar/band trip to Edmonton. We are all staying in a hotel with 4 people to a room. My best friend who is also going and is staying in my room has pretty much arranged with a room of girls to hang out with them in the hotel when we have free time and whatnot. He's got a girlfriend that is not going so he won't be messing around with them or anything. (although, I'm sure if he wanted to he could) He told me I should try to get closer to/hook up with this one girl that we are going to be hanging with. She's pretty hot, so I said sure, I'll give it a go.

I guess you could say I'm an AFC. My social situation is kind of weird. I hang out with all the regular cool guys, but If I want, I also hang out withe everyone else. I'm kinda like everyones friend, I have no enemies and most people like me.

Basically what I'm asking for is some general advice on how to get to know her a little better. I need some tips on how to single her out and show her that I want her. Anything would be appreciated. I realize that this trip has HUGE potential for me, so I can't mess it up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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read the bible, seriously. read all you need to know the next 3 days or so... then the rest of the time you need to practice talking to chicks and get confident.

you pretty much need to step up your game until the trip.

heres the bible: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

i'd love to hear how you do.

if you have SPECIFIC things to ask, i'll be glad to help.
 

ManiacJack

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I live near there... lol
 
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