Do you think it's a reliable indicator for interest/no interest? as many girls will never initiate contact as it means chasing. Had some experience of girls reinitiating contact after one week while we usually say that radio silence for more than 3 days means it's over.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
going ghost, waiting her to re-initiate contact, reliable test?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Duracell_Bunny
Senior Don Juan
Definatly not a reliable indicator.
If they do re-innitiate contact there is the possibility they are wanting an ego boost, orbating, wanting attention, validation, already taken but stringing you along as an option and many other reasons.
I would normally apply the two strike rule. If they don't reply first time, try only once more.
The only reliable indicator of interest is if they show up on dates and make time for you. They could be calling and texting you 24/7, but if they come out with some BS each time you offer a date they most likely never will go on a date with you - this most commonly happens after the first date.
If they do re-innitiate contact there is the possibility they are wanting an ego boost, orbating, wanting attention, validation, already taken but stringing you along as an option and many other reasons.
I would normally apply the two strike rule. If they don't reply first time, try only once more.
The only reliable indicator of interest is if they show up on dates and make time for you. They could be calling and texting you 24/7, but if they come out with some BS each time you offer a date they most likely never will go on a date with you - this most commonly happens after the first date.
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I think when a woman REALLY is interested in you, there is no need for you to play games and figure out whether she is interested or not by indirect methods. A woman who WANTS you will move mountains and make no mistakes about her intentions.
Do you really want to waste time and energy on a woman who you have to sit on the edge of a cliff to figure out if she is attracted to you by methods of NEXTING and then waiting?
Now don't misunderstand me - my current gf did the rejection thing on my during our 2nd date. I told her good luck in life and walked away just like that. She DID come back running to me after a few days going through emotional rollercoaster realizing what stupid thing she did and lost. After that episode she has never fooked with me again.
This is establishing your frame with women from the beginning.
You have to understand WHY you are going ghost in the first place. Is the woman totally ignoring you and not returning your call?
You should go GHOST without expectations of anything and start focusing your attention on other women. You are intentionally still expecting it to be a game, and wasting your energy on something that may disappoint you in the long run. Drop her, move on to other women - if it is meant to be, she will be back.
With respect,
Exodus
Do you really want to waste time and energy on a woman who you have to sit on the edge of a cliff to figure out if she is attracted to you by methods of NEXTING and then waiting?
Now don't misunderstand me - my current gf did the rejection thing on my during our 2nd date. I told her good luck in life and walked away just like that. She DID come back running to me after a few days going through emotional rollercoaster realizing what stupid thing she did and lost. After that episode she has never fooked with me again.
This is establishing your frame with women from the beginning.
You have to understand WHY you are going ghost in the first place. Is the woman totally ignoring you and not returning your call?
You should go GHOST without expectations of anything and start focusing your attention on other women. You are intentionally still expecting it to be a game, and wasting your energy on something that may disappoint you in the long run. Drop her, move on to other women - if it is meant to be, she will be back.
With respect,
Exodus
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
It can be. But even better is her reciprocity towards you. It's gotta be a two way street or you're at a disadvantage.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.