fooshoonoo
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How would you guys approach girls on campus and stuff
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Going from high school to College
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
NorwegianDJ
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Dont use lines, talk about something you have in common, or just have fun with it.
Try approaching 5 people a day.
Join a good frat.
Live in dorms.
Try approaching 5 people a day.
Join a good frat.
Live in dorms.
lifejourney
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Easiest way to meet girls in College is just talk to the girls in your class. In fact, on the first day just sit next to a girl. Then just ask her something about the class. Go from there, its incredibly easy, its not even funny.
phlong bong
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Be interesting! I like to sit with people who look fun somewhere in the middle of the class, because then it's easy to be/start conversations with many people. I also like to joke in lecture with witty profs. It makes it easy to start convos with anyone in class as I'm known as social and fun not someone with ulterior motives even tho I have been the whole time 