fooshoonoo
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How would you guys approach girls on campus and stuff
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Going from high school to College
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NorwegianDJ
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Dont use lines, talk about something you have in common, or just have fun with it.
Try approaching 5 people a day.
Join a good frat.
Live in dorms.
Try approaching 5 people a day.
Join a good frat.
Live in dorms.
lifejourney
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Easiest way to meet girls in College is just talk to the girls in your class. In fact, on the first day just sit next to a girl. Then just ask her something about the class. Go from there, its incredibly easy, its not even funny.
phlong bong
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Be interesting! I like to sit with people who look fun somewhere in the middle of the class, because then it's easy to be/start conversations with many people. I also like to joke in lecture with witty profs. It makes it easy to start convos with anyone in class as I'm known as social and fun not someone with ulterior motives even tho I have been the whole time 