fooshoonoo
Don Juan
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How would you guys approach girls on campus and stuff
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Going from high school to College
- Thread starter fooshoonoo
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NorwegianDJ
Master Don Juan
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Dont use lines, talk about something you have in common, or just have fun with it.
Try approaching 5 people a day.
Join a good frat.
Live in dorms.
Try approaching 5 people a day.
Join a good frat.
Live in dorms.
lifejourney
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Easiest way to meet girls in College is just talk to the girls in your class. In fact, on the first day just sit next to a girl. Then just ask her something about the class. Go from there, its incredibly easy, its not even funny.
phlong bong
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Be interesting! I like to sit with people who look fun somewhere in the middle of the class, because then it's easy to be/start conversations with many people. I also like to joke in lecture with witty profs. It makes it easy to start convos with anyone in class as I'm known as social and fun not someone with ulterior motives even tho I have been the whole time 