Master Homer
Don Juan
what are your guys startegies?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
going from high rapport to sex
- Thread starter Master Homer
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
usually sex is already embedded inside the rapport so is not a big deal when it is brought up.
It seems better for me to create sexual tension. Depending on the ho's personality I either flirt and insinuate, or I just tell them that I want to fvck 'em.
With the less horish you have to gauge the responses. But with the full blown hoes you create sexual tension and then as above just tell them. Either one will like your boldness.
It seems better for me to create sexual tension. Depending on the ho's personality I either flirt and insinuate, or I just tell them that I want to fvck 'em.
With the less horish you have to gauge the responses. But with the full blown hoes you create sexual tension and then as above just tell them. Either one will like your boldness.
Master Homer
Don Juan
So basically, when you have high rapport, something like, "Lets ****" can work?
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
uh. i tried that. worked horridly. because the girl was more conservative and non *****ish
when you're making out with a conservative chick... and things are getting really hot, then something like "i wanna make wild love to you baby.." works best for me. the girl suddenly morphed into little miss horny mode.
when you're making out with a conservative chick... and things are getting really hot, then something like "i wanna make wild love to you baby.." works best for me. the girl suddenly morphed into little miss horny mode.
If you think you have good rapport then try it but:
It depends. Like I said if the subject of sex is inside your rapport then you can have a smooth transition.
You can have good rapport but if she sees you just as a friend and you tell her that you wanna f0ck her, she will freak out.
Create sexual tension and you won't even need to say anything.
It depends. Like I said if the subject of sex is inside your rapport then you can have a smooth transition.
You can have good rapport but if she sees you just as a friend and you tell her that you wanna f0ck her, she will freak out.
Create sexual tension and you won't even need to say anything.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Master Homer
Don Juan
I disagree though, back in my AFC days I had a girl give me so many signs that she wanted me to fvck her. Eg:
After me pretending to be pissed off. She came up to me and hugged me (I never kinoed any girl ever when I was AFC), looked me in the eyes with the most hoish expression and said, "you should punish me."
Off course I didn't get sh!t, and now she doesn't even talk to me anymore. But I think if I knew how to handle the sitution, I'd probably be banging her right now.
After me pretending to be pissed off. She came up to me and hugged me (I never kinoed any girl ever when I was AFC), looked me in the eyes with the most hoish expression and said, "you should punish me."
Off course I didn't get sh!t, and now she doesn't even talk to me anymore. But I think if I knew how to handle the sitution, I'd probably be banging her right now.
LOL she was an attention ho and nothing else.
It is funny but that is exactly how your latter responses are programmed in your head.
It did not work cause you were and AFC and you were and angry puppy she could toy with.
Scratch the past and see that it was only an experience.
Today you are more confident and this is a different chic. So why not give it another try. Reprogramm yourself.
It is funny but that is exactly how your latter responses are programmed in your head.
It did not work cause you were and AFC and you were and angry puppy she could toy with.
Scratch the past and see that it was only an experience.
Today you are more confident and this is a different chic. So why not give it another try. Reprogramm yourself.