"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Going for HB 0

skinnyguy

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Do you guys think some guys should go for bigger girls just to get their confidence up?

Most guys have the problem of going for girls not in their league.

Sorry my title should be HB 5 lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Çharismo

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First off have some standards.

Second of all it's not worth it.

Third, you will probably feel like sh!t afterwards.

Fourth, going after women like that...you won't learn any aspects of "The Game" because it would be too easy.

Fifth and lastly...how the fAck you have a 1000 posts and are asking questions like this?!
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Going for HB0 is an awesome title. The HB scale is highly subjective. My friend will low ball girls I find cute then fcken give high ratings to girls I find unattractive. I get the feeling a lot of guys here would give what I consider an HB6-7 an a HB9 or perfect 10 rating. I only go after girls I'm into and that means I'm 100% into her looks even if I understand she's no trophy girl. To me an HB5 is average and therefore very bangable. The cute chubby chick or just cute chick who isn't quite a 6 gets this. Where I draw the line is below average like a 4-3 and hell no to what I consider a 2-1.

If I give a girl a 7 that means I find her really fcken hot. If I give a girl an 8 it's almost just like saying wow that 7 looks really good today, or just an understanding of the extra trophy factor to a girl. As for a 9 this is something I almost never see. It probably doesn't last. It's like Megan Fox in the first Transformers movie and probably only on screen not in real life. As for 10's no girl is perfect. I certainly see the perfection in any girl I'm 100% attracted to but I understand she's not perfect and that's important.

So yeah screw a 5 or 4 or what ever if you're into it. Screwing girls just to get screws if you're not into it though will make you feel gross. I've never done that and don't want to. It's trouble enough screwing girls you're 100% into. When I say 100% into I don't mean in love I just mean you want her for sure no doubts.
 

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It depends I guess but me personally i have a range and it also depends on how im feeling and what type im into at that moment. I have fvcked the really hot girls that walk into the bar/lounge and every guy is trying to talk to her but after a while that gets same ol same ol. I sometimes find a "geeky" looking girl cute and ill go for her. She may be wearing glasses but with a nice body and a cute girl next door look. Sometimes im in the mood for the thick girls, Big t*ts, Big azz but still shapely in the right places along with a very cute face. It all depends. I know i can get 9's but i also go for 7's at times. Overall, a guy should go for a girl he likes and what hes in the mood for.
 
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I'd say a young guy should start with any woman who is enthusiastic and interested him. Once he's got a couple of those in his rotation, he will have a bit of confidence and can move up.

Whether those are "HBzeroes" or HB8s depends on your personal standing when you start out. If you're Justin Bieber, you can "start" with HB9s. If you're an average shmuck, you may have to start with 3s or 4s.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Zarky said:
I'd say a young guy should start with any woman who is enthusiastic and interested him. Once he's got a couple of those in his rotation, he will have a bit of confidence and can move up.

Whether those are "HBzeroes" or HB8s depends on your personal standing when you start out. If you're Justin Bieber, you can "start" with HB9s. If you're an average shmuck, you may have to start with 3s or 4s.
Good advice, I agree.

However, would this, in essence, be categorized as the male version of branch swinging? Hypergamy?

Just wondering.
 

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I would say so. Everybody wants to maximize their "reproductive potential." For guys that means dating (and/or marrying, if you're so inclined) the hottest women they can find. For girls that means dating (and/or marrying) the highest-status men they can find.

Which is why I'm perplexed by the "manosphere" berating women for their "hypergamy." Everybody wants the best they can get. Most people even want better than they can get.
 

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Going for low value and then ditching them will not elevate their confidence, it will crush them, just the same as when a 9.5 broad doesn't text some SoSuavers back after a ONS (obviously I don't know what this is like personally).

As Charismo said, have some standards.
 

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HB0 - it must be a sh**** existence for her while the HB10 is having a pampered life.
 

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If she's DTF and you can look at her in daylight without throwing up, then why not?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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skinnyguy said:
Do you guys think some guys should go for bigger girls just to get their confidence up?
No, fat girls need to understand that unless they hit the treadmill, they are undesirable to men, which defeats their entire point as women.

Plus they are unattractive; how is that a confidence-builder?
 

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I think having zero limits in the bedroom adds about three points to the HB scale. And every time a woman says "ewww...I don't do THAT," it subtracts a point.
 
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