"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Going direct, FTW indirect is BULL****

Borknagar

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trust me, I went direct all night, and made out with and number closed nearly every girl. Sure maybe a mild indirect during the day, but direct for night. Don't bull**** yourselves, women know. Take it from me. be shameless, have balls
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alex DeLarge

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By direct, do you mean being honest in your approach?
(Example : "Hi, my name is ___. I thought you look cute so I wanted to introduce myself")

If so, then you're right. I've never used any pick up line or canned opener before. I rarely get denied when I go for a number close too. Sometimes I even try to get denied like this site teaches and approach a girl that doesn't look like she'd be into me, but the girl gives me her number anyways haha. Most of the time it's no reply, but who cares.

But the direct approach works much better because you're being honest and up front with your intentions. You're not beating around the bush, you're telling the girl "Hey, you're sexy, let's date. I don't care if you think me approaching you is creepy."

Pretty much true confidence, indirect game seems like a pvssy way out.
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
If so, then you're right. I've never used any pick up line or canned opener before. I rarely get denied when I go for a number close too. Sometimes I even try to get denied like this site teaches and approach a girl that doesn't look like she'd be into me, but the girl gives me her number anyways haha. Most of the time it's no reply, but who cares.

What the fffuk?

If it never works then why would you keep doing it? You're doing it wrong.


Direct is good if the girl is interested straight away. Otherwise you are putting yourself in a very bad position that is difficult to get out of, and risk losing something that you may have got with the regular way.

An approach is an approach. You go talk to a girl, they know what you want. If they like you, you will know it.


And a number isnt worth **** if you dont get a date out.
 

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Ease said:
What the fffuk?

If it never works then why would you keep doing it? You're doing it wrong.


Direct is good if the girl is interested straight away. Otherwise you are putting yourself in a very bad position that is difficult to get out of, and risk losing something that you may have got with the regular way.

An approach is an approach. You go talk to a girl, they know what you want. If they like you, you will know it.


And a number isnt worth **** if you dont get a date out.
I'm saying I do this with girls that will probably deny me who aren't really in my demographic.. I've done the same kind of sh1t with girls that I find really attractive who are in my demographic and have got make outs first night meeting them. Got a BJ once too haha.
 

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I am with Ease on this one. It all depends on the circumstances. At times the directness goes over board and does more damage than good. Powerful, yet still requires a certain degree of judgment on your part.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PapiChulo said:
I am with Ease on this one. It all depends on the circumstances. At times the directness goes over board and does more damage than good. Powerful, yet still requires a certain degree of judgment on your part.
Going direct has never worked well for me. I usually scare or embarrass girls doing that. Though sometimes when girls walk away from me after going indirect (Hi, how're you?), I wonder if the direct method would've worked at that time. Then again, I do Day Game.

I think I'll try some more direct approaches and see how they can benefit me though.
 

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If nothing else, going direct establishes the fact that you are a confident man that isn't afraid of sex. That's never a bad thing in pickup.
 

Alex DeLarge

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Jeffst1980 said:
If nothing else, going direct establishes the fact that you are a confident man that isn't afraid of sex. That's never a bad thing in pickup.
bingo!
 
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