"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Going direct, FTW indirect is BULL****

Borknagar

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trust me, I went direct all night, and made out with and number closed nearly every girl. Sure maybe a mild indirect during the day, but direct for night. Don't bull**** yourselves, women know. Take it from me. be shameless, have balls
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Alex DeLarge

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By direct, do you mean being honest in your approach?
(Example : "Hi, my name is ___. I thought you look cute so I wanted to introduce myself")

If so, then you're right. I've never used any pick up line or canned opener before. I rarely get denied when I go for a number close too. Sometimes I even try to get denied like this site teaches and approach a girl that doesn't look like she'd be into me, but the girl gives me her number anyways haha. Most of the time it's no reply, but who cares.

But the direct approach works much better because you're being honest and up front with your intentions. You're not beating around the bush, you're telling the girl "Hey, you're sexy, let's date. I don't care if you think me approaching you is creepy."

Pretty much true confidence, indirect game seems like a pvssy way out.
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
If so, then you're right. I've never used any pick up line or canned opener before. I rarely get denied when I go for a number close too. Sometimes I even try to get denied like this site teaches and approach a girl that doesn't look like she'd be into me, but the girl gives me her number anyways haha. Most of the time it's no reply, but who cares.

What the fffuk?

If it never works then why would you keep doing it? You're doing it wrong.


Direct is good if the girl is interested straight away. Otherwise you are putting yourself in a very bad position that is difficult to get out of, and risk losing something that you may have got with the regular way.

An approach is an approach. You go talk to a girl, they know what you want. If they like you, you will know it.


And a number isnt worth **** if you dont get a date out.
 

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Ease said:
What the fffuk?

If it never works then why would you keep doing it? You're doing it wrong.


Direct is good if the girl is interested straight away. Otherwise you are putting yourself in a very bad position that is difficult to get out of, and risk losing something that you may have got with the regular way.

An approach is an approach. You go talk to a girl, they know what you want. If they like you, you will know it.


And a number isnt worth **** if you dont get a date out.
I'm saying I do this with girls that will probably deny me who aren't really in my demographic.. I've done the same kind of sh1t with girls that I find really attractive who are in my demographic and have got make outs first night meeting them. Got a BJ once too haha.
 

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I am with Ease on this one. It all depends on the circumstances. At times the directness goes over board and does more damage than good. Powerful, yet still requires a certain degree of judgment on your part.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PapiChulo said:
I am with Ease on this one. It all depends on the circumstances. At times the directness goes over board and does more damage than good. Powerful, yet still requires a certain degree of judgment on your part.
Going direct has never worked well for me. I usually scare or embarrass girls doing that. Though sometimes when girls walk away from me after going indirect (Hi, how're you?), I wonder if the direct method would've worked at that time. Then again, I do Day Game.

I think I'll try some more direct approaches and see how they can benefit me though.
 

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If nothing else, going direct establishes the fact that you are a confident man that isn't afraid of sex. That's never a bad thing in pickup.
 

Alex DeLarge

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Jeffst1980 said:
If nothing else, going direct establishes the fact that you are a confident man that isn't afraid of sex. That's never a bad thing in pickup.
bingo!
 
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