going crazy? u might have to much spare time

[The challenger]

ok lately i was gettin a lil crazy, it can be described as extreme restlessness. I either really wanted to be with a girl (horny), or had a crazy hunger for violence. This kinda ruined my stability. I kept doing stupid things with girls, such as sending a emotional message which was totallllly afc.
so i relized i gotta get rid of this, IT WAS MAKIN ME TOTALLY AFC.

Working out usually cured it temporarily, which means it probably has to do with my idleness. Im currently in a situation where im stuck at home most of the time doing nothing important for the last 3 days. Turns out this was why i was gettin so emotional and lame lately and BAM i recently just found the cure.
since its sunday i have school tomarrow. i was only in school 2 outta the 5 days last week so i missed ALOT. so i started to study. BAM all of a sudden my restlessness disappeared!!! doing work and **** totally cured me.

so my advice to u guys is this. get hobbies and all sorts of stuff to keep u busy. stuff u enjoy and to be most efficient find some kinda goal u wanna accomplish and work for it. Accomplishing goals leads to confidence!

i also think this is why there are SO MANY KEYBOARD JOCKIES. sitting on the computer is extremly close to idleness. THis is probably making u more and more afc. Which cascades into u being to scared to approach and do stuff, or leads u to ****ing up with girls which makes u to insecure to do it again or something.

to all u keyboard jockies, stand up right now and do SOMETHING! anything that doesnt involve the computer, or video games!, u no u had stuff that u thut about doing but were to lazy to do. GO DO THEM NOWWW!

 

[nonchalant]

Invest in yourself. Material things and good fortune come to those who have self actualized.

 

[avrilishot]

its very true on what you said. we all need to keep ourselves busy.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Invest in yourself. Material things and good fortune come to those who have self actualized.

:nono: Sounds like someone has been reading The Secret.

 

[unreal-]

great post man

when something is on my mind playing video games doesn't seem to do the trick, but I have find that going to the golf driving range with one of my friends helps out a lot.

 

[The challenger]

^ yep sports are great for it

 

[Styles]

Nice post

 

[Mjazz]

yea but whenever Im on the computer I am learning and reading, not gaming. I think TV is a bigger waste, and video games the biggest

 

[The challenger]

^ ur right TV AND GAMES ARE HORRRRRIBLE. almost 100% useless

but quick question. did u just start getting into the DJ community? cause for me i really cant learn much more from reading. I have reached the point where i can only really learn and improve from the feild.

be aware guys, u may be in this spot also but havent relized it or are denying it cause the feild is scary (which is why im still on this forum, its scary out there 100% alone lol)

 

[afc_2_dj]

I have reached the point where i can only really learn and improve from the feild.

I agree with challenger on this, browsing this site, etc leaves one with a wealth of knowledge, but like everything just reading is no use without practical experience.

I think TV is a bigger waste

I find TV actaully makes you lazy, for example if I first plonk down in front of the TV when I get home from work, I actually feel more lethargic/disenergized and don't feel like walking my dog/going to gym/etc. It actaully feels like it drains you more even though you are just staring at the box.

 

[The challenger]

yo iv noticed comp and tv make ur look alot worce and make u ALOT sleepier.

iv been on the comp more often lately (i no its bad >< i dont want to but grrr im goin though weird **** right now) and iv become ALOT ALOT ALOTTT less energetic and im sleeping in classes again
before when i barely went on i had ALOT more energy and cud stay awake (although it wasnt easy for some classes lol)

 

[frisco]

Get a job, and plan **** for your days if you don't have anyone to hang with make yourself comfortable doing things by yourself and having just as much fun. I can have just as much fun by myself as hanging with any of my bros. And when I am on my own I am more likely to try an pick up on girls i see at the mall, Gym, Restaurant. Also sometimes if i hang out with the some person over the course of a couple days i just wont call and i do my own thing. You need to learn how to rely on yourself for, Your own entertainment and fun and everything in life.