"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Doe Boii

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I have pretty good game when it comes to pullin ho3s, but i can neva keep up a conversation with em. Like when i see the girl, i think about what im going to say then and it's all good, but then i hesitate in going up to her and talking, and i forget all my smooth lines. then when i am in conversation every line i thought of i forgot leaving those odd "Pauses" in the convo when im trying to think of something to say to her next. plus all i do is ask questions exp. "where u from" "you like it here" blah blah blah.

Could someone give me some techniques or tips on how to solve these problems.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Plec07

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Learn to tell stories and tease her a lot. Just make sure it's playful and she knows your not serious. Also silence can be good if you can make sure your comfortable with it and convay that you are. That will make you appear more in control and she'll feel obliged to re-initiate conversation. If all else fails, tickle her till she's on the ground and kiss her. :up:
 

Doe Boii

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Plec07 said:
Learn to tell stories and tease her a lot. Just make sure it's playful and she knows your not serious. Also silence can be good if you can make sure your comfortable with it and convay that you are. That will make you appear more in control and she'll feel obliged to re-initiate conversation. If all else fails, tickle her till she's on the ground and kiss her. :up:
Good Post
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SenorSuave

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Use word association. This means that you pick out key words from what the girl does say, then branch out more on these key words.

Example:
Pizza > Italian > Italy > Travel
Something like that.
 
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