"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Doe Boii

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I have pretty good game when it comes to pullin ho3s, but i can neva keep up a conversation with em. Like when i see the girl, i think about what im going to say then and it's all good, but then i hesitate in going up to her and talking, and i forget all my smooth lines. then when i am in conversation every line i thought of i forgot leaving those odd "Pauses" in the convo when im trying to think of something to say to her next. plus all i do is ask questions exp. "where u from" "you like it here" blah blah blah.

Could someone give me some techniques or tips on how to solve these problems.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Plec07

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Learn to tell stories and tease her a lot. Just make sure it's playful and she knows your not serious. Also silence can be good if you can make sure your comfortable with it and convay that you are. That will make you appear more in control and she'll feel obliged to re-initiate conversation. If all else fails, tickle her till she's on the ground and kiss her. :up:
 

Doe Boii

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Plec07 said:
Learn to tell stories and tease her a lot. Just make sure it's playful and she knows your not serious. Also silence can be good if you can make sure your comfortable with it and convay that you are. That will make you appear more in control and she'll feel obliged to re-initiate conversation. If all else fails, tickle her till she's on the ground and kiss her. :up:
Good Post
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SenorSuave

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Use word association. This means that you pick out key words from what the girl does say, then branch out more on these key words.

Example:
Pizza > Italian > Italy > Travel
Something like that.
 
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