"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Doe Boii

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I have pretty good game when it comes to pullin ho3s, but i can neva keep up a conversation with em. Like when i see the girl, i think about what im going to say then and it's all good, but then i hesitate in going up to her and talking, and i forget all my smooth lines. then when i am in conversation every line i thought of i forgot leaving those odd "Pauses" in the convo when im trying to think of something to say to her next. plus all i do is ask questions exp. "where u from" "you like it here" blah blah blah.

Could someone give me some techniques or tips on how to solve these problems.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Plec07

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Learn to tell stories and tease her a lot. Just make sure it's playful and she knows your not serious. Also silence can be good if you can make sure your comfortable with it and convay that you are. That will make you appear more in control and she'll feel obliged to re-initiate conversation. If all else fails, tickle her till she's on the ground and kiss her. :up:
 

Doe Boii

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Plec07 said:
Learn to tell stories and tease her a lot. Just make sure it's playful and she knows your not serious. Also silence can be good if you can make sure your comfortable with it and convay that you are. That will make you appear more in control and she'll feel obliged to re-initiate conversation. If all else fails, tickle her till she's on the ground and kiss her. :up:
Good Post
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SenorSuave

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Use word association. This means that you pick out key words from what the girl does say, then branch out more on these key words.

Example:
Pizza > Italian > Italy > Travel
Something like that.
 
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